Say when.
When you want something, it’s a delicate balance between showing persistent interest and being pushy/desperate/scary. As a dedicated balls-to-the-wall goer, I resent that fine line and, frankly, I think it’s a pretty shitty one to have to walk. But walk it, we must. You’re a smart (adorable!) person, you can read the given situation and decide how much pressure to apply. If your instincts have steered you wrong in the past and you’ve edged over into stalker territory, go easier this time.
Today remind yourself: Say when.
