It’s not bad; it’s just not yours.
Remember that sour grapes fable? The fox can’t reach the grapes because they’re too high up so he tells himself the grapes are probably nasty anyway. Aesop knows what’s up. Just because something is out of your reach doesn’t mean it’s bad. It just means it isn’t yours. If the grapes are yours, you’ll get them. Otherwise, there’s something else out there for you. Something sweeeeeeet.
Today remind yourself: It’s not bad; it’s just not mine.
