Dwelling is for other people.
Pep Talk: Conflicts leave residue. It’s hard to shake off what was said, how you felt, and what people must have thought- oh, how we project! Take it from someone who just spent 10 hours ruminating over a tiny semi-dispute: dwelling feels bad. I’m going to stop right now and you can too! Let’s leave the dwelling, the stewing, the hemming and hawing to the bastards who crossed us.
Today remind yourself: Dwelling is for other people.



