You can leave.
Pep Talk: When you’ve invested a lot of time and energy into a relationship, it’s natural to want to stick it out and make it work, but maybe you should ignore that impulse. If you’re feeling threatened, pressured, or abused in any way, it’s time to pack your shit and go. There are entire groups of people who want to make this transition as safe as possible for you, so please consider it. You are a clever, strong, self-sufficient person and I’d hate to see you undervalued in an unsafe relationship unworthy of your time.
Today remind yourself: I can leave.
