July 2010
You defend yourself.
Pep talk: It has been drilled into us that taking responsibility is noble and brave. Yeah, sure, but if you're being blamed for something that's not your fault, don't take the rap! You don't have to narc on anybody but do not accept undeserved punishment. You are not where the buck stops.
Today remind yourself: I defend myself.
June 2010
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Your life improves by the second.
Pep Talk: The life ahead of you is more wonderful than you can possibly imagine. Get ready to receive some seriously splendid things. For you, it just keeps getting better.
Today remind yourself: My life improves by the second.
You'll be there.
Pep talk: You're really good at keeping your commitments. You show up when you say you will. That means a lot to people. Your actions set a good example for the rest of us flakes.
Today remind yourself: I'll be there.
You're confident and rightly so.
Pep talk: You have to believe in yourself. You simply must. You are good and capable so you might as well be your own biggest fan.
Today remind yourself: I'm confident and rightly so.
Everyone is nice to you.
Pep talk: People can still surprise you. Dicks can do nice things. Weirdos can act regular. There's still the possibility of sweetness from even the most heinous jerkface. Let yourself be amazed by unexpected kindness.
Today remind yourself: Everyone is nice to me.
Your laugh is charming.
Pep talk: You have a laugh that makes people feel warm inside. It is well timed, (usually) appropriate, and contagious. May your laughter lighten your heart and delight all who hear it.
Today remind yourself: My laugh is charming.
Find Jim a Job!
Do you know anyone who is hiring? If so, email me @ emailingrachel@gmail.com
Any field. Any requirements. Anything.
It's within you.
Pep talk: You can make someone's day with the tiniest action, so do it! It's free and it pays off big time. Flash your brilliant smile and change the world with your kindness.
Today remind yourself: It's within me.
Your happiness is important.
Pep talk: You deserve to be as happy as possible as frequently as possible. There is no good reason to stay where you're miserable. As a strong, brave person, you have options. Free yourself and be joyous.
Today remind yourself: My happiness is important.
Happy Birthday To This Blog!
Two fucking years worth of pep talks! Holy shit, I’m a machine.
It’s a total coinsidence that today DailyPep got this delightful shout out! (Thanks Emily)
Anyway, I love you all.
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You can scratch first.
Pep Talk: You scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours. Or I’ll scratch yours and eventually, I’m sure, the opportunity will present itself for you to scratch mine and, because I’ve scratched yours, you’ll be more inclined to take that back a-scratchin’ chance! We all help each other. It doesn’t matter who helps more or who helps first. It simply matters...
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Aw shit, it's Tuesday again!
And you know what that means… Recommendation time! Here’s me judging you. I declare you guilty of sexiness.
You're a happy thinker.
Pep talk: You are allowed to ignore unpleasant thoughts. You don't have to think them at all. You can decide to make your brain the happiest place since Disney World. And the life you're living? That's happy too.
Today remind yourself: I'm a happy thinker.
Your body wants something.
Pep talk: Give your body a gift. Maybe a nap or a massage. After all, your body spends all its free time dragging you around and catering to your whims, the least you can do is relax and listen to it.
Today remind yourself: My body wants something.
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You're valid all by yourself.
Pep Talk: Oh sweet Jesus- Name droppers. It doesn’t get any more annoying than name droppers. Well, let em drop all they want, you don’t have to act impressed if you aren’t. They’re trying to be valuable by association and that’s maybe a little sad but it’s ok. You just need to remind yourself how valuable you are as an individual and maybe your self-confidence...
You have excellent friends.
Pep talk: Doesn't it feel great to have friends? They're good to you. You're good to them. It's a happy, loving relationship that you nurture with every text, chat, and activity.
Today remind yourself: I have excellent friends.
Your life is noticeably awesome.
Pep talk: You encountered something fantastic today and you noticed it too! That means you were lucky and alert. Being in the moment pays off.
Today remind yourself: My life is noticeably awesome.
You're doing good work.
Pep talk: You're hanging in there like a pro, champ. Keep working. Everyone wants you to succeed and you definitely will.
Today remind yourself: I'm doing good work.
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You face exciting possibilities.
Pep talk: When debating two decisions, you could always pick the one with the higher likelihood of being memorable. Whatever you choose will be the right decision, of course, but the possibility of a bitchin’ story might steer you in an exciting direction.
Today remind yourself: I face exciting possibilities.
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The world needs a dose of you.
Pep Talk: You look fine. No, better than fine. You look cute and lovable! The rest of us don’t want to be deprived of you. Get up, get going, get out of the house and let the world see you sparkle.
Today remind yourself: The world needs a dose of me.
Use what you learned.
Pep talk: You are smart as a motherfucker. You've spent many years filling your brain so, next time you're feeling challenged, you can probably apply something you've already learned. Make that education of yours work for you.
Today remind yourself: Use what I learned.
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You're complete already.
Pep Talk: You will find a person with whom you fit. That person will recognize all the wonderful things you are. They will want you to succeed and will never hinder you. Being with them will be easy, funny and comfortable. Until you two meet, enjoy your single life because you are and always will be whole.
Today remind yourself: I’m complete already.
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All are welcome on the cutting edge.
Pep Talk: When you find out a great tip or secret, share it! When you hear about a hot band or website, spread the word! Don’t be stingy with your new found awesomeness. A good thing that lots of people enjoy contains the same amount of goodness as a good thing that only a select few know about.
Today remind yourself: All are welcome on the cutting edge.
You are socially gifted.
Pep talk: You do a really good job making people feel welcome. You have a comforting way about you and you have a knack for introducing old friends to new friends. It is such a pleasure to have you as a social goodwill ambassador.
Today remind yourself: I am socially gifted.
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Today, you become a writer.
Pep talk: Writing is fun and easy! Whether you want to write a journal, keep a budget, track your intake, or count your blessings, daily writing is something you can totally commit to. You don’t have to do it forever, but today is a good place to start. You’ll be pleased with what you create.
Today remind yourself: Today, I become a writer.
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Little pluses add up.
Pep Talk: Oh my God! You’re amazing! Thank you so much for being so consistently thoughtful. You hold open doors and leave great tips and so much more… all the things you do are fantastic.
Today remind yourself: Little pluses add up.
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At least you tried.
Pep talk: So, you mistakenly called his sister his mother, incorrectly guessed his sexual orientation, and asked him how he liked the job he just lost. How could you have known? You couldn’t have. Forget it. Everyone assumes all the time. We’re all equally asses.
Today remind yourself: At least I tried.