You’re fine to fly solo.
Pep Talk: You’re a dish, so of course your friends want to set you up on dates with every rando this side of the Mississippi. But if you’ve decided that you want to be single, that’s valid. You do not have to date. You can allow yourself time to be the single most self-sufficient person around.
Today remind yourself: I’m fine to fly solo.
This is something you can change if you want to.
Pep Talk: Of course you’d be good at a job other than this one! Now, I’m not saying you should quit your job. I’m just saying you don’t have to feel like it’s the only job you can do. Yes, you’re great at what you do now, but if you hate it, you can do something else. You just have to learn how to do something else, which won’t be a problem because you’re a very good learner. You’ll learn it, you’ll practice it, then you’ll do it and you’ll be awesome at it.
Today remind yourself: This is something I can change if I want to.
( “We don’t make mistakes, just happy little accidents.” Bob Ross via Pinterest)
You’ll give it the old college try.
Pep Talk: Stop thinking you’re not good enough or smart enough, because you are good enough and smart enough. You are! You’re going to go in there and try your best and see what happens. Even if this particular thing doesn’t go exactly right, or even if you completely fail, that’s ok. Everybody fails. You just try again or try something else. No big deal. Don’t count yourself out before you try. I bet you’re going to do awesome.
Today remind yourself: I’ll give it the old college try.